WARNING SIGNS IN ANY RELATIONSHIP

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Warning signs in any Relationship:-

By Sandigdha Mishra, Advocate
advocate.sandigdhamishra@paydirtprofesionals.com



The start of every new relationship is all butterflies and happiness. Like every other start, it’s full of promise and excitement and people tend to get lost in it right from the get go. That other person is often everything we dreamed of, smart, funny, attractive, the whole works.
It is as it should be, some would say. What is the point of entering into a relationship if you’re going to start finding faults with it straight away? That might be true but we could prevent a lot of heart break, for ourselves and the other person involved, if we could only critically assess the situation at the beginning.
Being honest with yourself doesn’t mean that a relationship won’t work out, it’s usually the only reason why it works out in the first place. But if we ignore the warning signs that point to our new relationship being a complete train wreck, we’re not doing anyone any favors.
There are several red flags that will point to the fact that the relationship isn’t going to work out. We will skip the most obvious ones, cheating and physical abuse should never be tolerated, under any circumstances and if you’re experiencing it get immediate help and tell someone! Other warnings signs take the time to notice, however, but that doesn’t mean you should turn a blind eye or ignore them. After all, you deserve to be happy and not trapped in a dependent or an unfulfilling relationship.
If you find yourself getting in arguments and you don’t know why or if either of you tends to pick a fight for no apparent reason, it may be a sign that you are experiencing these addictive tendencies. Does this mean your relationship is doomed? Not necessarily. If both partners are willing to make a conscious effort to stop the addictive behaviors there still is a chance to have a great relationship.

The key is to recognize warning signs that lead to fights before they happen.

Below are some of the warning signs that a drama cycle may be beginning. Arguments tend to progress in this order. Keeping your eye out for these behaviors in yourself or your partner can help prevent escalation.

Warning Signs to Watch For: 

 Please check your and your partner's signs-

1. Is their any Changes in body language (slouching, looking down, fast breathing, fidgeting, pacing)

2. Is their any Changes in voice and language (raising the voice, negativity, being short, using harsh words)

3. Is their any Negatively interpreting what the other is saying

4. Is their any Invalidating what the other is saying

5. Is their any Bringing the past into the conversation

6. Is their any Using terms such as “you always” or “you never”

7.Is their any Using words and comments intended to hurt the other person

Initially it will be difficult to become aware of the cycle and stop it; just like any addiction, it will take time to break through the patterns. Don’t beat yourself up if you catch yourself in the act, this is the goal! What matters is that you become more aware of these behaviors as they begin so that you can stop yourself before that addictive dose of adrenaline kicks in. The more you can stop yourself, the less frequently you will find yourself engaged in that insane drama.

"Once you become aware what you are doing it, the cycle loses its power."

-:Thank you:-

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